How we spend our time reveals our true priorities
Core Idea: The way we allocate our finite time resources serves as the most reliable indicator of our actual values and priorities, regardless of what we claim to value.
Key Elements
Time as the Ultimate Resource
- Time is uniquely finite and non-renewable
- Every time allocation choice inherently means choosing against other possibilities
- Time investment patterns reveal preference hierarchies
- What receives consistent time attention represents actual (not claimed) priorities
Observable Patterns
- Regular activities that persist despite "busyness"
- Activities consistently postponed despite stated importance
- Time investments made automatically versus those requiring deliberate effort
- Emotional responses to time constraints and scheduling conflicts
Measurement and Self-Assessment
- Time tracking as a tool for priority awareness
- Comparing calendar data against stated values
- Identifying discrepancies between time allocation and declared priorities
- Using time data to make more aligned decisions
Applications
- Career choices that align with genuine priorities
- Relationship investments that reflect actual values
- Project selection based on demonstrated interests
- Habit formation guided by authentic priorities
Additional Connections
- Broader Context: Opportunity Cost (every time allocation represents foregone alternatives)
- Applications: Personal Auditing (techniques for reviewing alignment between actions and values)
- See Also: Local vs Global Focus (how time allocation choices reflect fundamental priority orientations)
References
- Sivers, D. (2020). Hell Yeah or No: What's Worth Doing. "Looking at your actions, and knowing you, I'd say that you don't really want to start another company" passage.
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- From: Sivers-Hell Yeah or No