Approaches to developing independent sleep skills in children
Core Idea: Sleep training methods are systematic approaches to help children learn how to fall asleep independently without parent-dependent sleep associations, ranging from gradual to more direct approaches.
Key Elements
Spectrum of Approaches
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No-cry/minimal-cry methods: Gradual approaches that minimize crying through incremental changes
- Chair/camping out method (gradually increasing distance from child)
- Pick-up/put-down technique (intermittent physical reassurance)
- Sleep lady shuffle (gradual parent withdrawal)
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Middle-ground approaches: Balanced methods that provide opportunity for self-soothing with limits
- Fuss It Out Method (time-limited opportunity to self-soothe)
- Controlled comforting (timed check-ins with minimal interaction)
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Direct approaches: Methods that create clear separation between sleep onset and parental involvement
- SLIP Method (removing sleep associations from bedtime routine)
- Graduated extinction/Ferber method (progressive waiting periods)
- Full extinction/Extinction Therapy (no checks after bedtime)
Selection Criteria
- Child's age and developmental stage
- Child's temperament (sensitivity, adaptability)
- Parental comfort level with crying
- Severity of current sleep issues
- Family sleep goals and logistics
- Previous methods attempted
Common Elements Across Methods
- Consistent bedtime routine establishing sleep cues
- Appropriate sleep timing to leverage natural sleep drive
- Safe and conducive sleep environment
- Clear distinction between day and night
- Consistent response to night wakings
Implementation Considerations
- Most effective when starting with bedtime rather than naps
- May encounter Extinction Burst regardless of method chosen
- Consistency is crucial across all caregivers
- Temporary disruptions (illness, travel) may require adaptations
- Success metrics should be improvement, not perfection
Additional Connections
- Broader Context: Independent Sleep Foundation (prerequisites for any method)
- Applications: Breaking Sleep Associations (primary goal of all methods)
- See Also: Gradual vs Gentle Sleep Training (terminology considerations)
References
- Dubief, A. (2017). Precious Little Sleep: The Complete Baby Sleep Guide for Modern Parents.
- Mindell, J.A., et al. (2006). Behavioral treatment of bedtime problems and night wakings in infants and young children. Sleep, 29(10), 1263-1276.
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