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A structured relationship between experienced and less experienced individuals to facilitate knowledge transfer and emotional support

Core Idea: Mentorship creates a social connection where an experienced person guides a newcomer through unfamiliar experiences, providing both practical direction and emotional support.

Key Elements

• Relationship structure: Pairs a more experienced individual (mentor) with a less experienced one (mentee)
• Knowledge transfer: Provides practical guidance, tips, and institutional knowledge
• Emotional support: Offers reassurance and encouragement during challenging transitions
• Psychological safety: Creates a dedicated space where questions can be asked without judgment

Implementation Methods

1. Formal programs: Structured mentor assignment with established meeting cadence and goals
2. Big/Little systems: Popularized in fraternities/sororities, creates familial-like bonds
3. Onboarding mentors: Specifically designed to help new joiners navigate unfamiliar environments
4. Interview mentorship: Begins even before formal entry into a group or organization
5. Career development mentorship: Focuses on long-term growth beyond immediate orientation

Effectiveness Factors

• Compatibility: Matching based on complementary traits and communication styles
• Clarity of purpose: Defined goals and expectations for the relationship
• Consistent interaction: Regular contact maintains momentum and relationship strength
• Appropriate resources: Both time and information resources to support the relationship

Real-World Examples

• Fraternity/sorority "Big Bro/Little Bro" systems during pledge processes
• Gaming mentors in Parallel Kingdom helping new players understand mechanics
• Corporate mentorship programs reducing turnover and increasing employee satisfaction
• Classroom buddy systems helping new students adjust to school environments

Additional Connections

• Broader Context: Core Drive 5 - Social Influence and Relatedness (social motivation)
• Applications: Onboarding Design (implementing mentorship in new user experiences)
• See Also: Social Scaffolding (related support concept)

References

1. Chou, Yu-kai. "Actionable Gamification: Beyond Points, Badges, and Leaderboards."
2. Kram, Kathy E. "Mentoring at Work: Developmental Relationships in Organizational Life."

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Sources:

• From: Chou-Actionable Gamification