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A time-limited approach to testing infant self-soothing capabilities

Core Idea: Fuss It Out (FIO) is an experimental approach that gives a baby a brief, timed opportunity to practice falling asleep independently before parents intervene.

Key Elements

• Age appropriateness: Best suited for babies older than 2 months

• Implementation process:

  1. Use age-appropriate sleep tools and techniques
  2. Soothe child until calm and drowsy
  3. Place child in crib while still awake
  4. Leave the room
  5. Set a time limit (10 minutes for younger babies, 15-20 for older ones)
  6. Wait the full allotted time before returning, regardless of fussing

• Expected outcomes:

  • Baby may fuss, grumble or sound upset
  • Some babies will fall asleep independently when given space
  • If successful, this becomes the new bedtime routine

• Distinction from Cry It Out: Unlike CIO, which is a committed decision, FIO is:

  • An experiment with a short, defined time limit
  • A way to test what the baby can do with practice space
  • Not continued if unsuccessful - parents return to their regular method
  • Can be retried after days or weeks as baby develops

Practical Application

• If unsuccessful, wait a day or week before trying again
• Recognize that developmental changes happen rapidly, so what doesn't work today may succeed next week
• Consider it a first step toward independent sleep rather than a comprehensive solution

Additional Connections

• Broader Context: Gradual Sleep Training Methods (where this falls in the spectrum)
• Applications: Sleep Independence Development (practical path)
• See Also: Cry It Out Method (contrasting approach)

References

1. Dubief, A. (2017). Precious Little Sleep.

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Sources:

• From: Dubief-Precious Little Sleep