Establishing meaningful dialogue before language
Core Idea: Even before babies can speak, two-way communication is possible through careful observation, clear speech, and respect for the baby's non-verbal responses.
Key Elements
Communication Principles
- Narration: Describing actions before and while they occur
- Waiting: Pausing for the baby's response after speaking
- Recognition: Acknowledging non-verbal cues as valid communication
- Incorporation: Adjusting actions based on the baby's responses
Practical Techniques
- Clear Language: Speaking slowly and clearly so babies can hear each syllable
- Notification: Telling babies what will happen before it occurs
- Response Time: Giving babies time to process and respond
- Respect for Signals: Treating gestures, sounds, and facial expressions as meaningful
- Positive Language: Stating what to do rather than what not to do
- Apologies: Acknowledging when we fail to communicate respectfully
Benefits of Early Communication
- Establishes respect for the baby as a person
- Builds language comprehension before speech develops
- Creates patterns of reciprocal conversation
- Helps babies feel secure and understood
- Lays foundation for future verbal communication
Common Communication Contexts
- Before picking up the baby
- During caregiving routines
- When transitioning between activities
- When setting boundaries
- During playtime and exploration
Connections
- Related Concepts: Respectful Touch with Babies, Building Secure Attachment
- Broader Context: Language Development, Respect Principle in Montessori
- Applications: Daily Caregiving Routines, Setting Limits Positively
References
- Davies, Simone. "The Montessori Baby"
- Gerber, Magda. "RIE Approach" (complementary philosophy)
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